Weak personality

If open lies are prohibited, hidden lies prove even more disastrous for human personality. In the realm of the Hereafter, individuals with such feeble characters will be deprived of proximity to God.

A radio program is dedicated to women. It covers various relevant topics. During one episode, the discussion focused on the relationships between mothers and their children. Numerous mothers shared their experiences from this perspective. For instance, one mother recounted, “I have a son and a daughter, and I work outside the home. Every day, before leaving for my job, I give my children strict instructions on what to do and what not to do.” She chuckled and added, “My daughter often teases me, saying, ‘Mommy, you’re like Hitler!’”

This conversation took place over the phone, and the female radio announcer explained that the comment indicated the mother’s authoritative approach. However, the mother quickly interjected, saying, “No, I don’t give orders.” Yet, her initial statement to her children undeniably resembled an order, as validated by her daughter’s remark. Despite this, the mother insisted, “No, no.” This pattern is prevalent among both women and men in today’s time. They often say something but backtrack when further questioned, claiming, “That’s not what I meant.” This behaviour is a form of lying—a hidden lie. Such deception is immensely harmful to a person, eroding the strength of their character. Individuals with weak personalities struggle to attain mental growth and fail to cultivate noble character traits. In the realm of the Hereafter, individuals with such feeble characters will be deprived of proximity to God. If open lies are prohibited, hidden lies prove even more disastrous for human personality.