EMPEROR AKBAR’S MOTHER
Women, as mothers, play a vital role in shaping their children’s minds. They should listen to their children and offer them guidance based on wisdom.
Mulla Abdul Nabi (died 991 AH) was a prominent scholar during Emperor Akbar’s reign. The Abdul Nabi Mosque, built by him, still stands near Bahadur Shah Zafar Marg in New Delhi. Mulla Abdul Nabi served as Emperor Akbar’s teacher, which led to his frequent visits to Akbar’s court.
Recognizing their special bond, Akbar appointed Mulla Abdul Nabi as the Sadr-us-Sudur, head of the Ulama, and chief advisor of the King in his government, granting him a position of great honour. Mulla Abdul Qadir Badayuni remarked that the importance of presidency achieved during the times of Mulla Abdul Nabi was unparalleled in any kingdom.
Akbar held Mulla Abdul Nabi in such high regard that he would even assist him in wearing his shoes. He would visit Mulla Abdul Nabi’s place and attentively listen to his teachings. This association left a lasting impact on Akbar to the extent that he would personally give the call to prayer (Azaan) at the mosque and occasionally sweep its floors so that he may be rewarded by God.
On one occasion, during Akbar’s birthday celebration, he donned saffron-coloured attire as part of his well-known policy. However, Mulla Abdul Nabi mistakenly interpreted the colour as that of Hindu Sadhus and became upset. In response, he struck Akbar with his cane in the crowded court. Although saddened by this act, Akbar quietly rose and retreated into the Palace, where his mother, Mariam Makani, was present, and Akbar confided in her, revealing that Mulla Abdul Nabi had struck him in the court. Akbar said there would have been no issue if Mulla Abdul Nabi had privately advised him.
Mariam Makani, a wise and knowledgeable lady, attentively listened to her son’s account and advised him not to hold grudges in his heart. She explained that it would lead to his salvation in the Hereafter. She prophesied that until the Day of Judgment, people would recount how a powerless Mulla (a religious scholar) provoked the king and how the gracious king responded with patience. This incident of Emperor Akbar shows women’s vital role in shaping their children’s minds.