PROVING ONE’S WORTH
When a person enters life fully prepared to meet its challenges, the world cannot but give him due recognition. Never in any environment does he fail to receive the position of honour, which is his due.
A young aspiring Muslim student from Azamgarh, A.M. Khan, stood nervously before the Principal of Hindu College and said, “Sir, I would very much like to be admitted to the B.Sc. course in your college.” The reaction was sharp. “The admissions are closed. How do you expect to be admitted in October when you are already several months late with your application?” Unforeseen circumstances had prevented young Khan from applying sooner, but he said, “It would be extremely kind of you if you would help me.” Then he added hesitatingly, “One whole year will be wasted for me if I am not granted admission.” The Principal’s reply was stern. “There is just no question of further admissions.”
The Principal talked so offhand that it should have been evident that there was no point in persisting. Even so, the student was determined to try his luck, although he only expected to be asked to leave the room immediately. On seeing the student’s insistence, the principal finally asked him rather dryly what his marks had been in the previous examinations because he felt certain he must have failed to get admission elsewhere due to his low marks. If this were the case, the Principal would have had reasonable grounds for rejecting his application. But the student’s reply was just the opposite of what he expected. He said, “Eighty-five per cent, sir.”
These words worked like a miracle. The Principal’s mood suddenly changed, and he asked the student to sit down and show him his certificates. When he saw them and was satisfied that the student’s claim was valid, he told him to write an antedated application.
Not only was the student then given admission despite such a long delay in applying, but he was also granted a scholarship by this very same Principal who had been so reluctant even to give him a hearing.
Had the same student approached the Principal with a third-class degree and had been refused admission. As a result, he would indeed have gone away full of hatred for the Principal concerned and would have remarked to his friends that prejudice had come his way. He would not have admitted that he had been refused admission because of his poor results. He would have publicly laid the blame on the Principal. It is not always clearly understood by aspirants to high positions that the response of our society is usually an echo of our condition. We tend to attribute the evils afflicting us to society so that we may shake ourselves free of the blame.
When a person enters life fully prepared to meet its challenges, the world cannot but give him due recognition. Never in any environment does he fail to receive the position of honour, which is his due. This results in his being able to maintain high moral standards. His experiences are marked by bravery, confidence, broadmindedness, gentlemanliness, acknowledgement of others’ worth and a realistic approach to life. He has the will and the capacity to enter into proper human relationships. Society has recognized his talents, and he, having given due acknowledgement to society, can rise above the negative attitude of hatred and prejudice.
The reverse is true when, because he cannot meet the required standards, he fails to prove his worth; when he enters life with inadequate training, he fails to find a place of his choice. As a depressed personality, he almost certainly develops a low moral character. He falls prey to negative psychology—anger, complaint, even criminality. Failure in life gives birth to this negative psychology because it is seldom that the person concerned blames himself for his failure. He almost always lays the blame on others for his shortcomings. Inadequate preparation for life brings two evils simultaneously—failure on one’s part and uncalled-for complaints against others.
A stone is hard to all and sundry. But it presents no problems to anyone with a tool that can break it. The same is true of the more complex obstacles that face us in life, for it is only if you enter the field of life equipped with the proper skills that you feel entitled to claim what is yours due. Even after the “last date”, you can be given admission to a college without anyone else intervening to help you. But without the necessary skills and ability, you will fail to find the place you aspire to.
Anyone who wants success to come his way in this world of God will first have to make himself deserving of it. He must know himself and his circumstances. He must organize and channel his energies properly. He must enter the field fully armed in every respect; others cannot fail to recognize his actual value. He must be like the tree which forces its way up through the undergrowth to take its place in the sun.
