The Importance of Interaction for Tazkiya
Companionship is a very helpful means of attaining tazkiya. In ancient times, face to face meeting, was the sole way of having companionship.
In the present age, people may be living at great distances from each other, so that companionship may appear to be out of the question. Yet it is still possible for the tazkiya-seeker to have the benefits of his guide’s companionship through tele-counselling, which is more immediate than communicating by means of letters or books, as was formerly done. If anyone is a seeker of tazkiya in the real sense, the new channels of communication will serve as a viable alternative to actual companionship.
The printing press, one of these modern means of communication, has made it possible to learn about tazkiya on a continuous basis through reading material such as books and magazines. These have to be seriously studied if the tazkiya-seeker is to become really familiar with the subject. From the Quran itself (96:4), we come to know of the importance of this method of learning from the written word, that is, imbibing the spirit of religion through books.
In one respect, the importance of study is not less than that of companionship. Indeed, the consistent study of books enables one to think deeply on the subject. Yet, although the study of books is of great benefit, interaction is still essential for tazkiya, because that facilitates a fruitful exchange of ideas. That is, one must keep in touch with the religious guide and seek guidance from him in all matters. This contact can be made through direct meetings or through other means of communication. Such contact is necessary on a daily basis; occasional contact will not serve the purpose.