LOVE CONQUERS ALL

When you stand in front of a human statue and speak harsh words or words of love, it will not react in either case. It won’t get angry at your harshness nor show joy at your kindness. But a living person is different. They get angry at harsh words and become gentle when they hear sweet words.

Most events in social life reflect this human trait. When you speak harshly to someone, they become your enemy and start planning revenge against you. However, if you speak to the same person with love, they become your friend. One type of speech drives people away from you, while another type brings them closer.

This is the most tried-and-true formula for a successful social life. If you want to live an honourable life in society, and if you want people to support you instead of becoming obstacles, then adopt just one principle in your life: approach everyone with gentleness and love.

The principle that it is disastrous to follow is: “Be kind to those who are kind and harsh to those who are harsh.” In contrast, the correct principle is: “Be kind to those who are kind and also to those who are harsh.” If someone becomes upset with you for any reason, do not respond with anger. Instead, overlook their bad behaviour and treat them well. Respond to their bitter words with sweet ones. Even if they harm you, strive to benefit them. You will then see that the person who appeared to be your enemy will become your close friend.