A woman with right temperament, who does not have interest in unnecessary matters and thinks about important matters, such a wife is a great asset for her husband. If it is the reverse, she becomes a liability. I will add that no one is born good or bad. No woman is born bad at the time of birth. A husband has to train his wife to become a pious companion. You do not get to marry a pious woman by chance. Rather, a man must understand the importance of companionship. He must understand that a pious wife is very important for him.
There is a hadith about women: مَا اسْتَفَادَ الْمُؤْمِنُ بَعْدَ تَقْوَى اللَّهِ خَيْرًا لَهُ مِنْ زَوْجَةٍ صَالِحَةٍ (Sunan Ibn Majah 1857) “After God-consciousness, the best that a believer is blessed with is a pious wife.”
A wife who is virtuous, pious and God-fearing. Such a wife is the best blessing for a person after God-consciousness. This is very important. A person's wife is his life partner. If she is fashionable, has interests in shopping and spending money, she will run after fulfilling her material desires. But if a man's wife is sincere, serious and distant from fashion, shopping and outing, then he draws strength from her. Both become best partners for each other. They both share with each other. A woman with right temperament, who does not have interest in unnecessary matters and thinks about important matters, such a wife is a great asset for her husband. If it is the reverse, she becomes a liability. I will add that no one is born good or bad. No woman is born bad at the time of birth. A husband has to train his wife to become a pious companion. You do not get to marry a pious woman by chance. Rather, a man must understand the importance of companionship. He must understand that a pious wife is very important for him. So, if he marries a woman, he must train her to become a pious partner. The above hadith does not mean that at birth some women are pious. Rather, it speaks of the responsibility of a man to train his wife.
