Maulana Wahiduddin Khan | Speaking Tree Website | January 02, 2017
Complaining is a very deadly thing. It is the habit of complaining that is at the root of various social problems. When several people live together, it is but natural that they will have differences, which are often then allowed to turn into complaints against each other. These soon get transformed into enmity, abuse and a never-ending cycle of hatred.
After Making a Mistake
Maulana Wahiduddin Khan | Speaking Tree Website | December 26, 2016
Often, people make a mistake, and then add to it by making yet another mistake—the mistake of trying to justify their first mistake. But what they should actually do on making a mistake is reflect on and seek to discover why they made that mistake in the first place. If you don’t do that, and, instead, you seek to justify your mistake after making it, you rema...
Patiently Facing Annoyances
Maulana Wahiduddin Khan | Speaking Tree Website | December 19, 2016
Abdullah ibn Umar reports that the Prophet once said, “A believer who engages with people and is patient when he faces annoyance from them shall have greater reward than he who neither interacts with others nor remains patient at the troubles caused by them.” (Musnad Ahmad, hadith no. 5022)
A person who lives all by himself, without any social intercourse,...
Using the Energy of Anger
Maulana Wahiduddin Khan | Speaking Tree Website | December 12, 2016
Once, somebody said to me: “I am basically a peace-loving person. But I get angry when people say something wrong. At such times, I get very agitated and then I begin to say such things that are really against my general temperament. How can I control this habit of mine?”
I replied to this man, saying, “The person who makes you agitated or angry is actually...
Remembrance of Death
Maulana Wahiduddin Khan | Speaking Tree Website | December 05, 2016
There is a hadith of the Prophet about death, which reads as follows: “Remember death often because it demolishes all desires.” (SunanIbnMajah, hadith no. 4258)
Death is a sort of personal earthquake. Just as people have no control over an earthquake, they have no control over death, a unilateral attack that everyone must face, some day or the other. Death comes...